Dear Bruce,
Thank you for posting the diagram! Except for floating the ground on the phono pre-amp I believe your suggestion is exactly what we will be doing -- star-grounding everything to a true earth ground.
Thank you for the cartridge suggestion. (More options?!?! : ) I believe Touraj of Vertere has the Miyajama Madake on his reference demo set-up.
However, because (i) I am no longer much of a DIYer, and (ii) the dry soil in Southern CA makes it difficult to get good conductivity, I have engaged Lyncole, a specialist grounding company, to prepare a bid to do the exterior earth ground part -- with multiple, chemically-encased ground rods to get the resistance to ground either below 10 ohms or, if I double the number if ground rods, to below 5 ohms.
If anyone has any view on whether a resistance to ground of 10 ohms or less is sufficient, or if a lower resistance of 5 ohms to ground makes a big difference, please let me know!