I agree. I don't think a lot of people really want "the absolute sound" that is true to the original. I could have a live string quartet playing in my listening room and I think if I invited groups of listeners most people would say it sounds too bright and that the strings aren't silky enough or its too (pick your favorite adjective). A lot are shooting for some type of "fantasy" sound...... So while pleasing, an SET (unless imbued with properly applied feedback) can never be accurate or neutral. But for many its 'if this is wrong I don't want to be right'.
Unfortunately, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want warm, lush etc. (What I would call blurry) you can't complain about the lack of resolution and transparency. Pick a lane.