not heard your room, so i cannot make any realistic guesses about how it sounds. and i know you have played around quite a bit. but as sensitive as you are to tipped up treble, it is critical to make sure the room is not the issue if you are doing amp compares.I agree with this.
and my limited experience with the 'Frenchie' amps leads me to believe maybe it's coloration is masking room issues that the Italian is exposing.
but it might be easier to live with the Frenchie than figure out the room. which might be just fine for most listeners......just not you.