Lee,
Great writing, but this is the type of post that can be highly destructive to the high-end and to its future. Accepting that the supreme and indispensable knowledge of something is centered in half a dozen people who fail to transmit it is accepting the close last dawn of it.
IMO the hobby does not aim at supreme perfection, it aims at entertainment and enjoyment of music with high quality. And IMO although "a good rule of thumb is that everything matters" at some time you have to pick what matters to you and forget about all else.
Please understand I am not commenting on the expertise and value of the people you addressed, just a general comment on the set up of systems.
My posts on the subject are surely influenced by my admiration for Jim Smith lifetime work.
One of the things I tried to do at TAS was a series of setup videos so we could capture what experts had learned and what they wanted to say. I did the speaker placement video with Jim but we planned a whole series of discussions. I have also encouraged Jim to finish his new books because they are excellent.
One regret I had was seeing Tim De Paravicini pass away before I felt we captured his knowledge. He was a true genius and had so much to share.