In your world, do you put heretics on the rack or do you just burn them at the stake to get it over with?
Nah, that's so old hat.
See, in my world that would be an admission (resorting to violence) that your stance cannot be substantiated by argument, logic or example, pretty downtone response.
Far better to simply see if the other side can substantiate
their stance. Forget taking up any points of evidence in this example (like 'how was it determined that things that measure the same sound completely different') but see if the points of logic can be addressed. Like 'how exactly does he know what person X, for whom he is speaking, wants from his system and how he knows person X has not got it'.
You know, the real kindergarten stuff.
So what need of stakes in today's age eh? The bright light of inspection does wonders.
NIN just popped into my head as I typed, but really now that I think about it they are a wonderful example. For my money, they'll do to illustrate a time when the experience at home is better than the real. (forget any snobby 'but it aint classical' crap for now m'k? I hope you'd be decent enough to not foister your personal music tastes on us as well...NOT that their is anything wrong with classical mind, love it, prob on balance makes up the majority of what I listen to).
For starters, they were too loud, insanely loud. That and that all you could hear was bass was part of the reason I ended up outside and listened from there. Able to hear any of the production qualities at the gig? Forget it. (love them or hate them, some of the production and effects are mind blowing). Any of the phase tricks (like bass that walks around the room)? Forget it.
A serendipitous perfect example that disproves your basic premise. That I also don't have zonked out kiddies with their stupid mobile phones in my face is just an added bonus.
You know what really intrigues me about you tho? For all your haughty righteousness and disdain for 'audiophiles' (now used in it's purest and broadest sense hence for example includes myself) is that it turns out YOU are the stereotypical audiophile.
What about them apples eh.
It seems that it is YOU that is soooo wrapped up in
how the reproduction sounds that you don't and cannot actually listen to the music, instead you are totally and completely focused on
how it sounds.
Possibly to avoid the nasty realisations that often come with hypocrisy it gets cloaked in a mantle of superiority..superiority of taste, superiority of listening acuity, superiority of knowledge all topped off with the (shallow) veneer of 'objectivity', ie "I am so above this and objective that I view the scene with equanimity and hence I, and I alone, can comprehend that idiocies of both sides and their vain attempts to enjoy stereo".
Well, it is easy to see thru such window dressing as that.
You it turns out are the biggest audiophile of us all. The caricature outsiders point their finger at.