Not to repeat myself, but… In light of the topic of your thread, it is easy to conceive that people having the same goals (and similar experience of live sound) could choose different systems because no system comes close to reproducing that experience of live sound (and this is where preferences for lesser evils come in to play).Easy. Different goals and values, some say preferences and tastes.
How do you explain it?
Once you accept that, then what is the point of insisting on live music as a reference? You could simply state what you enjoy listening to.