The Exeltech mp2000 has less than 1% THD. I think the Victron is over 3%? My system only uses about 400 watts, so the Exceltech has plenty of headroom for me.Had identical plan few months ago , but no time to make it happen.
5000 is probably best in regards to the theoretical power needs, but newer version ( 2) has AC connecting points much less quality then the version 1.
I was thinking about the higher spec version 8000 and 10.000 as they could have much higher specs with my power hungry monos and their power attachment points are much larger for AC.
Also it could make a great sense as the voltage will remain much more stabile.
We should keep in mind that the regular power line can deliver a LOT of Amps in peaks, so the higher the better, but this needs to be tested.
The battery must be LiFepo4 with hight quality as you mentioned.
Also here the more Amps the better.
For 10.000 Quattro version I was told the best would be 3x 200 Amps at 48 V to handle everything
(house if needed) so 600 A battery pack. But again 200 A might be good to start testing and add more if there is any need.
Why I believe the more the better? I had the StromTank 5000 for many months in my system that was never able to deliver the good sound fully off grid ( green light) , but when it was on line ( blue light) it sounded much better than a grid itself.
Stromtank 5k has 750VA continuous power. This is not much for amps.
Hight power version has 1500VA.
Victron quattro 10k version is rated 10.000 VA continuous at 230V,
8000 Watts continuous, 20.000 Watts peak.
Victron is one of the very best here in Europe with very low THD .
Both Multiplus and Quattro are great.
Their THD is much lower than listed in manual at lower loads.
Please keep us updated with your progress. I hope you can set your off grid for stereo soon.
I wonder if two Exeltechs could connected in parallel to provide 4k watts? (I have no idea.)