This is a terrific post Swen. Thank-you. I agree - hearing lots of systems helps refine what good sound is. But ultimately our tastes differ. One man’s “absolute sound” may be another’s meh. And that’s okay! It also makes one realize that (especially) speaker design and room/setup can have profound effects on sound. Take for example electrostatics, which to my ears have a way of enveloping the listener in sound. To me that’s the pinnacle of music reproduction, but others steadfastly stand by their box speakers and others their horns. Find the presentation that suits your tastes and leave it at that. Put a pin in your system, get off the merry-go-round, and use the money you save to do other things. In my case, that’s more records and live music!I completely disagree: The number of systems you’ve owned yourself is totally irrelevant. What matters is how many different setups you’ve heard live (e.g., at dealers, shows, friends’ places, or studios), how you’ve trained your hearing through critical listening, and how many direct comparisons you’ve made.
Music is altered in 99% of cases already during mixing/mastering by the sound engineer – so „absolute fidelity“ is an illusion anyway. And your own system is always heard only in your own room, where acoustics set the ultimate limits.
Why owning your own high-end system can even be counterproductive when evaluating other people’s setups:
Habituation and bias: You get used to the sound of your own system (including room coloration) and subconsciously consider it „correct“. When hearing other setups, you compare to that reference and quickly judge deviations as „wrong“ instead of objectively.
Confirmation bias: Having invested a lot of money, people tend to defend and overrate their own gear. This leads to overemphasizing (or ignoring) differences in other systems to justify the purchase.
Lack of broad experience: Someone who’s tweaked just one or two personal systems for years often has less comparative exposure than a person who regularly hears many different rigs in various rooms. Trained listeners (e.g., engineers or reviewers) without a fixed personal reference are often more neutral and sensitive to nuances.
Room dominance: Your own gear always sounds in the context of your room – this distorts evaluations of other gear in different spaces because you carry your „room sound“ reference mentally.
Focus on gear over music: Many owners develop emotional attachment to their equipment („Gear Acquisition Syndrome“), listening more to the system than the music. This hinders objective assessment of foreign setups.
In summary: A solid opinion comes from broad, neutral listening experience and trained ears – not from expensive ownership.
Best Regards Swen
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