I have said before the Industry does a terrible job debunking the code so that consumers understand what the heck they are talking about. I also think that the reviewers, many with good intent, use the words because they are expected too and thay trying to describe things we hear is lets face it difficult to express.
I think Karen Sumner, certainly a member of the industry, is doing a great job debunking the code or reviewer speak and trying to focus the discussion more on what we hear from live music.
If 'debunk' means 'to expose as false', while I can't speak for Karen, I don't think what some of us are trying to do is "debunk the code or reviewer speak". We are not saying that reviewers or others are making false or exaggerated claims about what they hear. If a certain stereophile reviewer describes hearing "velvety black backgrounds" from a certain component, I believe that is what he hears. I do agree with Elliot that reviewers will say and encourage things because they've read them in other reviews. The press needs to break out of the cycle of language it continually repeats.
Without trying to gloss over it, I think what Karen and I and others (yourselves included) are doing here is a form of advocacy that encourages using live acoustic music as a guide for assessing stereo reproduction while aiming for a believable, natural sound in our homes. If one doesn't hear an effect from a live performance, then admiring that effect in reproduction is a disjunct between that and what sounds natural.
Some (many?) here do not agree with that approach which, imo, is why it is advocacy.
Modern equipment is capable of introducing effects not heard from live performance. Karen speaks of a "misguided aesthetic" - one example being where "a system is delivering sought after artifactual details that do not exist on the source material." Some of this type of effect may come from a manufacturer's desire to differentiate one's components from other components. Some of it comes from what listeners accept as desirable from reviewers who exclaim or extoll such effects. I believe some manufacturers are influenced by what is popularized in the press. While some pay lip service to an absolute sound, few reviewers write about how live music sounds when discussing components.
From another part of the industry, some dealers are reluctant to compare any of their various wares and lines with each other, preferring to let the customer/listener make their own choices. This is a perfectly understandable business practice, although it is not education or advocacy about what is important for a system's sound. Where does does that come from? While it can make points, we need to move beyond debunking.
One way to advocate and educate for adopting the sound of live music as a reference for a stereo system is to take the approach Karen and others are taking by discussing characteristics of live and reproduced sound. In the opening post there is a synopsis of prior discussions about tonality and dynamics as a lead in to discussing the use and effect of space as an important aspect of what and how we hear.
While it is important to have counter-examples -- stuff that is sonically artificial -- most important, imo, is to positively encourage what is valued in the sound of live music and encourage these values as goals for reproduction.