My wife and I always joke about her being a music widow. We never would take that as fact....it's all in good fun. (and it is)
It seems this cat took this level of commitment to a level I would never strive to achieve. He lost my respect when I read that he shut the system down when his son wanted to listen.
My wife and I always joke about her being a music widow. We never would take that as fact....it's all in good fun. (and it is)
It seems this cat took this level of commitment to a level I would never strive to achieve. He lost my respect when I read that he shut the system down when his son wanted to listen.
because if one son suddenly wants to listen to the father’s system after all these years, it only means he is interested in currying favor for the inheritance over the second son.
Ken for all his obsession seems realistic to have realised that.
Be careful of all your family members who suddenly tell you hey can we listen to your system? Or worse, “It sounds real nice”
because if one son suddenly wants to listen to the father’s system after all these years, it only means he is interested in currying favor for the inheritance over the second son.
Ken for all his obsession seems realistic to have realised that.
Be careful of all your family members who suddenly tell you hey can we listen to your system? Or worse, “It sounds real nice”
That’s an interesting Interpretation to say the least! What did they end up getting for those speakers, $19 K?
I can appreciate Fritz’s obsession and skill in building his system, but the whole thing feels like a horror show. And to me, that room he created looks like a faux antique nightmare. A lonely man listening to Swan Lake. I wouldn’t want spend a minute in there.
That’s an interesting Interpretation to say the least! What did they end up getting for those speakers, $19 K?
I can appreciate Fritz’s obsession and skill in building his system, but the whole thing feels like a horror show. And to me, that room he created looks like a faux antique nightmare. A lonely man listening to Swan Lake. I wouldn’t want spend a minute in there.
that was a joke, and i I don’t think they were interested in the system. They thought he would sign off the estate to the son who hears more venue information
because if one son suddenly wants to listen to the father’s system after all these years, it only means he is interested in currying favor for the inheritance over the second son.
Ken for all his obsession seems realistic to have realised that.
Be careful of all your family members who suddenly tell you hey can we listen to your system? Or worse, “It sounds real nice”
This story reminds me of local audiophile who has a 1-2 million system. He invites you over, you knock on the door, he opens the door and the first statement is: “ARE YOU WORTHY TO VISIT & LISTEN”. I always responded with a “not in the least”. I dropped out of that social circle!
Not including your spouse/family/SO or wanting to learn more about their passions are missed opportunity in life. I really feel for the folks that live separate lives. Time can not be purchased with any amount of $$. I've been spoiled (and blessed) with a spouse that purchased and actually loves her Red Magnepans!
Not including your spouse/family/SO or wanting to learn more about their passions are missed opportunity in life. I really feel for the folks that live separate lives. Time can not be purchased with any amount of $$. I've been spoiled (and blessed) with a spouse that purchased and actually loves her Red Magnepans!
This story reminds me of local audiophile who has a 1-2 million system. He invites you over, you knock on the door, he opens the door and the first statement is: “ARE YOU WORTHY TO VISIT & LISTEN”. I always responded with a “not in the least”. I dropped out of that social circle!
my kids were out of the house when I started down the audiophile system building path. my whole extended family can take or leave my hobby as they want to, it's never any family focus thing. my son helps only with the computer network stuff from time to time. my daughter does give me birthday cards with a hifi theme occasionally. they know I love it and support my passion.
my son did help me for one day sealing up a bass trap in my ceiling. we had fun. then I gave him one of my nice bikes.
on Thursday I have my 50th Wedding Anniversary. and my wife seems ok with me these 7 months retired. we are having fun just hanging out.
my kids know I would prefer grandkid focus to hifi focus, but they have not done their part on that score. not a damn thing I can do about it.
the biggest issue my kids have is they are worried my wife and I will croak and leave cleaning up the big house and barn full of crap to them, and are always on us to downsize. first world issues for sure.
a big system can work for a family if it makes you happy and you don't take it or yourself too seriously.
my kids were out of the house when I started down the audiophile system building path. my whole extended family can take or leave my hobby as they want to, it's never any family focus thing. my son helps only with the computer network stuff from time to time. my daughter does give me birthday cards with a hifi theme occasionally. they know I love it and support my passion.
on Thursday I have my 50th Wedding Anniversary. and my wife seems ok with me these 7 months retired. we are having fun just hanging out.
my kids know I would prefer grandkid focus to hifi focus, but they have not done their part on that score. not a damn thing I can do about it.
the biggest issue my kids have is they are worried my wife and I will croak and leave cleaning up the big house and barn full of crap to them, and are always on us to downsize. first world issues for sure.
a big system can work if it makes you happy and you don't take it or yourself too seriously.
We all need pledges with some of us others to help in the "clean up", come that day, which would make it much easier for the family to deal with, I believe. I just worry that I'll outlive my audio buddy community... Gotta make younger connections!
The points are well taken that we all can get carried away with this hobby at times. However, it’s worth mentioning that ALS can have some psychiatric aspects. And maybe he had some OCD to begin with.
Enjoy the music, but enjoy your human relationships !
my kids were out of the house when I started down the audiophile system building path. my whole extended family can take or leave my hobby as they want to, it's never any family focus thing. my son helps only with the computer network stuff from time to time. my daughter does give me birthday cards with a hifi theme occasionally. they know I love it and support my passion.
my son did help me for one day sealing up a bass trap in my ceiling. we had fun. then I gave him one of my nice bikes.
on Thursday I have my 50th Wedding Anniversary. and my wife seems ok with me these 7 months retired. we are having fun just hanging out.
my kids know I would prefer grandkid focus to hifi focus, but they have not done their part on that score. not a damn thing I can do about it.
the biggest issue my kids have is they are worried my wife and I will croak and leave cleaning up the big house and barn full of crap to them, and are always on us to downsize. first world issues for sure.
a big system can work for a family if it makes you happy and you don't take it or yourself too seriously.
Biggest issue my kids have is they are worried my wife and I will croak and leave cleaning up the big house and barn full of crap to them, and are always on us to downsize. first world issues for sure.
I have recently had some significant health issues and have decided to sell my house, audio system, etc. to save my family from the burden you describe above. Downsizing big time and moving to a much smaller space somewhere in Colorado to a facility licensed in independant living and assisted living. And also much closer to medical facilities.
Much easier on me and most importantly, given the fact that I live alone that is nowhere close to the rest of my family, much easier for them. And I have control of all the various relocation issues. Time to start the next phase of my life.
