my perception has been that clamps, weights, and vacuum hold down approaches seem to affect the 'life' and 'focus' of the music.
is the record being as flat as possible more important than other issues? it a question I don't have a certain answer to. but my guess is 'no' based on my experience.
Exactly right! And the problem is that it is not something that anybody understands completely.
The example I have is that the turntable I've used through various iterations for nearly 25 years is the Roksan Xerses. It even has a removable center spindle so that no part of the turntable touches the album except for the mat. I would have expected that the record wouldn't be held steady enough for speed accuracy, not solid enough to the platter.
Yet, it is the turntable (until I encountered the Air Force One) with the 'life', 'dynamics' and 'rhythm' that I preferred over everything else I've ever heard. Because different listeners have different priorities, there is no one issue that is most important. It depends on the priorities of the owner.