Nassim Taleb describes the phenomenon of "making yourself poor again."
He cites an ivy league educated lawyer in New York whose social climbing wife insists they apply and live in an exclusive co-op. Their life experience then becomes being snobbed by trust fund dowagers and various and sundry ultra wealthy types who think they are wannabes and poseurs, even though they make in excess of half a million dollars a year in income.
Most people, whatever their wealth, think that if they just made or had about 40 percent more, their problems would be solved and they would be happy. This is apparently the case no matter what their income or net worth.
I was acquainted in the day with an heiress in Pacific Heights. She had boo hoo money, but she would walk around her neighborhood and point out the residences of the people who had "real" money with awe.
There are some individuals in my parents age group who were raised in warm, tight knit communities during the Great Depression. They were happy and had fulfilling childhoods. They had no idea they were dirt poor until they had a basis for comparison when they left for jobs in cities.
A lot of it is relative, the old "status groupie" neurosis of the 60's and 70's.
Now, if I just had 40 percent more......!!
I recall reading Rajat Gupta's fall from grace was triggered by a desire to play in the financial big boys league (hedgies). 8 figures net worth was not enough - had to be 9 figures, preferably 10.