Although I can identify that people pay attention to different aspects of music experience, in my opinion sound and music are inherently intertwined and ultimately we are a bit of both, musicphiles and gear heads. I do not see why we would have to identify ourselves with one of them exclusively. There is enough space in each grouping for all of us. I assume that even if you 'appreciate things like sound stage, frequency extremes, PRaT, venue acoustics, recorded detail, system integration, musicality, naturalness, dynamics, silence between notes, air around instruments, tonal colour' your primary reference point is music, not empty sounds of traffic jam or goats making noises. Therefore, it is hard to be a gear head in a vacuum without paying attention to particular aspects of music per se such as 'the composition, the beautiful timing, the interplay of instruments, the note shaping of great musicians....while gear heads listen to and appreciate things like sound stage, frequency extremes, PRaT, venue acoustics, recorded detail, system integration, musicality, naturalness, dynamics, silence between notes, air around instruments, tonal colour etc'.