I don't have mine 10' apart, but I previously listed all of the dimensions of where they are in my room with regards to how far from the back wall, side walls, and how far from each other. I do believe mine are over 9' apart but less than 10'. As long is you don't have the "hole in the middle" issue which I don't, all is good. With regards to integrating subs, I think you are making it sound more difficult than it really is. Subs don't have to come from the same manufacturer as the main speakers in order to 'work' correctly. The subs don't have to be made from the same cone material as the main speakers in order to blend or for whatever reason you think they need to be made from the same material. At the end of the day, all that matter is that you are happy with the sound of the LS50s in your room. After hearing the incredible purity these speakers are capable of, you really can't go backwards again.
Agree, the big concern is creating a "hole" in the center. If you don't have that you are ok.
It is possible I am making it sound worse than it is. I have a friend who has the superb Proac Tablettes. He bought a stereo pair
for Proac subs. It took 6 months for him not to integrate it, and he finally bought the DSPspeaker unit. This process is not for me. I have
been to countless listening rooms where they owners spend more time "dialing" in the subs then enjoying music.
What I mention about sub integration and materials I heard from several uber speaker designers. And yes..they made subs too. A full range
or near full range speaker for me personally is the ticket. Since I don't listen to organ music, they do NOT have to go down to 16 Hz.