...I wouldn't corner myself into defending one material over another. Speaking only for myself. No offense intended. But I do think we would need to define "performance" more precisely.
Touring the backcountry in India? Good luck with carbon repair there. You can find a welder "almost" anywhere. I think performance can have different definitions which may be purpose-driven, even cost-driven.
But I do know what you mean, Dave. An ultimate pro-race bike will be carbon. Although I am not aware of any pro-bike repairs to the carbon. Usually, the mothership wants stuff back for analysis. To make sure they don't have a big safety-recall issue hiding in the wild.
I swapped one of my carbon handlebars after a mild crash. For a privateer racer, not getting free gear from sponsors, an Al bar may be a better option, long-term. Frame? Tougher call...if you're racing.
One of the tri-guys I wrench for before big events, damaged his aero-carbon seat-tube by over-clamping an over-extended "sleeve." I did a lot of analysis on that for safety, but in the end, a place in the NW US did a primo repair, and he road that bike again at Ironman Lake Placid. So, there is a repairability aspect to carbon, but not usually a DIY project, although kits are available. Likewise, you can send your frame off and get a metal tube repair too.
Worst aluminum bike failure I have seen: garage fire. Fork was a molten slag heap.
Worst carbon bike failure: many. Usually due to impact (and not always high-speed).
I have steel, aluminum and carbon bikes. Still have my Raven carbon monocoque on a magnesium skeleton. I loved it. The marketplace did not.
No matter what it's made of: keep on riding.
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